Hi Alex, Thats such a shame you feel this way. We produce the bandeau as a free piece of fabric to tie with the skirt, we do not add on additional costs for this. It really is a straight tie up fabric as an alternate for a top. If this isnt suited to you then you can purchase the matching bodice. Alternatively this ties at the back and sits flat so nicely with the skirt. SHould you need advice on how to tie this and different options please get in touch so we can share alternate recommendations.